Why I am a #FRUSTRATIONExpert & IAmBeic Practitioner 😉
To Flash or not To Flash – The Story of IamBe
IamBe was a Greek Goddess, the daughter of Pan and Echo.
One day, whilst working close to the city of Athens, Iambe met Demeter. Demeter had come down to earth from the heavens, consumed with grief for the loss of her daughter Persephone, who unknown to her had been kidnapped by Hades in the underworld. Demeter was not eating, drinking, talking or smiling and this was also depleting and destroying the surrounding lands. In one account, Iambe in an act of sisterhood, connects and communicates with Demeter’s head and heart by flashing at her and telling jokes, which shocks Demeter, makes her laugh and transforms her state of grief! Demeter begins to eat, drink and smile again, which restores balance and harmony to the lands and people around.
So why am I writing about this story? In 2017, I developed a ‘communication, connection & collaboration’ model to create fresh perspective and possibilities for adults and children. As a result they experience:
💜improved inner wellbeing
💜more empowering relationships
💜greater clarity and focus
💜improved productivity and efficiency
💜fewer power struggles
Play, Poetry & Possibilities
I was searching for a word to encompass my model. At one point, as I often do, I looked up to the sky and requested a word and 3 days later ‘IAmBe’ arrived at Waterloo Station.
Sipping tea and waiting for a grieving friend in a coffee shop called BeNuGo at London Waterloo, I considered this name, was it a play on words – be nu go? My Random Dialogues partner and I, AyPee (RIP) had also been reciting a mantra linked to our combined transformational BeSayDoHaveⒸ model:
‘I am who I say I AM
Because what I say I am
That is who I am’ Ⓒ
So in the spaces, I questioned who ‘I am BEing’ and played with these words and created IamBE. Upon Googling it I found out she was the goddess who communicates and connects through Play and Poetry, perfect and random, this is exactly what a #FrustrationExpert does 😉
Frustration leads to breakthroughs and more empowering changes of state.
What a great way to BE
So if you are Frustrated allow me to metaphorically Flash at you and help realign you with who you are and what you LOVE to do. 😉
You may enjoy walking and talking with me, sitting and sipping or skyping.
Playful collaborations always considered
NB: To BE Or Not To BE?
‘Iambic’ verse also stems from Iambe’s name and her jokes and playful nature, it was often used by Shakespeare in his plays and sonnets, an example being ‘To Be or not to Be’.
‘I Am that I Am’ the common English translation of the response God used in the Hebrew Bible when Moses asked for his name (Exodus 3:14).
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A Random DiaBlog
Sometimes we get so caught up and absorbed with the busyness of life that we forget what it’s like to just be. What do you do LOVE to do, that helps you to connect to you amongst all the doing?
How can we Be when we are so Busy Doing?
Even when we are busy doing we can pause, take a breath and notice. It’s that simple and something we can do throughout the day, yet often forget. Try it, how do you feel now?
I like to garden, there’s lots of jobs to do at the moment it can get a bit overwhelming, so yesterday down on the allotment I remembered to pause, breathe and notice. I looked down and got excited that the nettles, comfrey and rhubarb were slowly and surely making their Spring appearances, things are warming up.
I shovelled cow pooh and noticed I was breathless, dirty and sweaty and covered in it!
How can Bees teach us to Be?
I visited the bees and enjoyed their playfulness around the hive, this quiet observation helped to create stillness in me. How often during the day do you notice silence and stillness?
I chatted alongside my Sicilian and Spanish neighbours and gossiped with the girls, reminding myself to fully focus, globally listen and not interrupt. I observed their faces, watched their breathing and became more aware of their energy, this also bought me to the moment. When was the last time you really listened and fully focused on someone without adding your buzz?
I looked up, listened and watched the birds flying in the trees, sensing the warm sun and cooler air.
Connection to Self
Connection to self is important, if we aren’t in tune with ourselves and what’s going on inside, how can we connect to others effectively – self care for mind, body and breath.
You Need To Get Out More
My friend teased me about my Facebook Live bee video and said ‘You need to get out more’. Yes it’s so true. This morning, I went again to the allotment again to sow broad beans – video here.
How about you, what do you LOVE to do that helps you to BE?
Thank you Linda for sharing this wonderful Low GI Hangover Cure recipe and blog –
A couple of years ago I came across this recipe which has become one of my favourite breakfast dishes. I’ve been working hard to follow a relatively low GI diet for about a year now and this is a gem in that respect. It delivers great protein, good fats and its low rating on the glycaemic index means my body really likes it.
It’s also fantastic for a hangover.
In fact I came across the recipe in a men’s health magazine whilst sitting in a hotel lobby in a ski resort in Tignes a couple of years ago. I wasn’t hungover at the time but was idly flicking through the mag whilst waiting for a friend, whizzing past the ab crunch exercise features which seem to be mandatory in such magazines, when I came across this recipe.
As a lover of good food the photos immediately caught my eye and this was one of a series of four recipes being billed as killer hangover cures. Rated on a scale of 1 to 4 with 4 being for the monumentally bad hangover this one got a 2. According to the text a 2 hangover is one where you are “heavily reliant on kitchen surfaces to stay afoot“. This made me smile.
Essentially it’s poached eggs on guacamole on toast. Aka “posh eggs on toast“.
We all know the avocado is hailed as a superfood and apparently it contains something called glutathione which is a fantastic antioxidant for one’s poor battered liver after a boozy night out. The humble egg delivers extra protein and if you can handle actually getting up and making it after a boozy night out I have found that it really does work!
The full recipe is as follows but I’ve never had spring onion in the house to add to it and I just use dried chilli from a grinder plus a liberal grinding of salt and pepper. I favour a protein bread or a Scandinavian or German style seeded rye bread. The Euphorium bakery do an amazing seeded protein bread (steam baked apparently which gives it a soft, open texture which is hard to find in other rye breads) and a fantastic Scandinavian tin (which I couldn’t tell apart from the homemade bread made by my son’s “Farfar” in Denmark) but sadly they’re now only available in their bakeries in the city and North London since Tesco stopped stocking their wares. I’m continually on the hunt for a good quality seeded protein bread so if anyone knows of a great one readily available on the high street please do share! I came across a protein bread in a bakery in Richmond last week which is good but doesn’t quite cut it vs the Euphorium one on texture and taste. Although at 8% carb and 24% protein on a pure nutritional / low GI basis it’s a winner. Waitrose do a nice seeded rye from the village bakery brand, the one in the purple bag, and Sainsbury’s do a decent German pumpernickel style seeded rye bread which is standard backup in my freezer.
1 really ripe avocado
2 tablespoons olive oil
2 chopped spring onions
1/2 red chilli, chopped
Lime for squeezing
2 slices rye bread
Peel, de-stone and mash up the avocado. Mix in the oil, onion, chilli and a squeeze of lime. Poach two eggs & toast your rye bread. Spread on your guac, sit the eggs on top, season and enjoy.
Thank you @growinamoomin
Helping you to Sort out Your Crap
Recently, I dug up a really sorry looking bunch of carrots. They were frozen, overcrowded, and had lots of black fly. With a good peel and chop, they scrubbed up well and I was able to create a tasty lentil and carrot soup.
I used a really simple base ingredient, to which there are numerous herbs that could be added to liven it up, such as cumin, coriander and chilli or mixed italian herbs etc. I’ve kept it plain so that all the family will enjoy it.
Chilli sprinkles and other optional herbs are on the table for them if they fancy a livlier soup. It also goes nicely with grated cheese.
This year, successional sowings of salad carrots will be properly tucked in and nurtured from mid March, followed by main crop sowings from May.
Let me help you sort your crap out
If you are feeling a bit run down, this is a wonderful immune boosting, comforting and connecting chicken stock, a soup for the soul, I think there’s even a book written about it.
I’ve made it since my children were babies. At the moment, they’ve got chesty coughs and colds and are looking and sounding a bit sorry for themselves. My daughter, Ellie asked me if I’d make this, given how fussy she can be about her food she can really surprise me with what she enjoys. Clearly their bodies tell them what they need, apart from all the sweets.
I used vegetables which we’d recently harvested from our allotment and the carcass from last night’s roast. It also has lots of thyme in it which is a herb I often use to make a winter tea with, using lemon, honey, echniacea and ginger, more here on the health benefits of thyme
For the stock to a slow cooker add a roughly chopped carrot, leek, celery stick, quartered onion with skin on, sprigs of fresh thyme, few cloves of garlic, fresh parsley stems and leaves, 2 bay leaves and black pepper. On top, place an organic cooked chicken carcass, you can break this with your hands or scissors and squash down gently. pour over cold water to reach about 2 cm below the rim.
Slow cook for 2 hours on high, then skim off the fat and continue to cook for 3 hours on low. (sometimes I just cook for 2 hours). Then sieve into an new pan ready to use. You can also freeze this into bags and also ice cube trays.
To serve Cook some rice noodles, add leftover torn chicken to the pan of sieved stock heat through for 2 to 3 minutes add the noodles, ladle into bowls and serve with chopped fresh parsley. (I have also added some shitake mushrooms for an extra immune boost)
Adventures on the Allotment – A Spicy Parsnip Soup
The mutant parsnips I dug at the allotment ground yesterday transformed well into a tasty sweet parsnip soup and uplifted with chilli sprinkles.
I’ll be planting parsnip seeds in late February, this time I might sieve the soil, although I rather like the Dr Who Ood features of this one. Over on my Allotment Facebook page I created a short video about it.
Recipe – chopped onion, chopped garlic, a large cube of chopped fresh ginger and a big spoon of garam masala all fried together in coconut oil for about 10 minutes.
To this softened mixture add, 5 peeled and roughly chopped parsnips, a tin of coconut milk, 1.5 litres of vegetable stock and salt & pepper. Cover and simmer for about 20 minutes until the parsnips are soft.
To serve, season and sprinkle dried chilli flakes over or fresh chilli, eat with crusty bread.