A child experiencing a temper tantrum can be a stressful and frustrating experience for us all. This blog is aimed at toddlers but the tips are very transferable. It is worth keeping in mind that often (not always) the screaming is a symptom of the child’s anger and frustration when they don’t have the vocabulary to explain what’s really wrong. Therefore, it does not help when we raise our voice, punish the tantrum or walk away. Staying calm and identifying what is wrong will help you to handle the situation quickly and effectively especially if you can get in there earlier … Continue reading How To Maintain Calm and Connection Around a ‘Temper Tantrum’
What do YOU want for your children? For them to be well behaved or to do well at school? Or maybe you just want them to be happy and achieve what they can in life. But what makes our children happy and confident? To give them what they WANT: more sweets, to stay up late, no chores, longer screen time, the newest phone/gadgets, no nagging, getting everything ready for them – packing their school bags, fixing and solving their problems, keeping on top of their homework Or will they be happier if we give them what they NEED: healthy food, … Continue reading Independent Children Are Confident Children
My husband is home which means I can get out walking early and leave him and the children sleeping. In the woods I smelt wood smoke and realised it was the leftover fire filtering through from our garden. Yesterday, my husband started to clear space for a shed/den for the children. In the woods, I looked for natural arches over pathways. Then made up some Qi Gong next to a favourite Oak Tree and perched quietly on my favourite fallen bench just listening, observing, smelling and enjoying. JayTee x Continue reading Arches
I have this print out on my wall from a Zen card and keep getting drawn to point 12 – Become no one. Just be more of yourself. I’ve been contemplating it for a while as I often read about becoming a better person and have thought I needed to change We have many qualities inside of us, we don’t always know they are there, sometimes someone comes along to shine a light instead on them to bring them to our conciousness. Then we learn to switch them on ourselves and light up others too. I’ve met some very … Continue reading Only Yew.
Finding Magic in the Woods with Luke. Walk. Breathe. Stop. Notice. Smell. Breathe. Listen. Repeat ‘When children engage their senses with the world around them, they feel happier and more hopeful about life‘ Marie Manuchehri ‘Stop being weird mum’ Chakra Number 2 JT x #rewildthechild #mindfulness #summerfunandlearning Continue reading ‘When children engage their senses with the world around them, they feel happier and more hopeful about life’ Marie Manuchehri
My daughter’s main love language is ‘time’, for many children and adults ‘time is love’ Over the past 5 days we’ve played monopoly together. We’ve only got a little travel, she gets it all out and blu tacs the hotels in place each day. We play for about 30 – 45 minutes (her choice) and then take a photo of where we’ve got up to for the next time, and leave it out if possible. Yesterday, I’d left the window ajar and the money blew everywhere. With only 2 of us playing I feel this game could go on for … Continue reading Mindfulopoly – Connection Through Collaboration & Play
Yoga At Home Would you like to have time during the week for yoga with your children, a time to connect, play, laugh, stretch, relax learn from each other and grow? Perhaps you are finding it tricky to find a class and time to suit. Practising yoga at home with your family can tick a lot of these boxes. I’m going to share some ideas below for ways I’ve weaved it into my family life over the past 11 years and hope it gives you some ideas and confidence to try it at home too. Post Natal Yoga When my … Continue reading Family Yoga Flow